![]() ![]() It betrays a lack of advertising and planning. Most people reacted to this discovery with pleasant surprise.īut to an activist like me, who keeps an ear on the ground, the appearance of a surprise event is not pleasant, it is suspicious. Most people, if they found out all, discovered this on the day it happened, perhaps through Twitter or Reddit. ![]() So that's my reasoning in my case.Did you know that Ace Day was on May 8th? No? Or perhaps you knew, but only learned that fact on the day it happened? You aren’t alone. Sexual pleasure isn't important to me and it's not a love language I connect to. I just don't see myself as someone sexual. I have low libido too and probably caused by a prescription I'll likely take my whole life, though I don't think it would change how I see myself as someone graysexual. If the medication is the cause, then it comes down to how you see yourself beyond that, or if you want a label 'because' of how you are even if the medication adds to it. Low libido (which medication can sometimes affect) can mean not really desiring sex much. That's why I use the label graysexual in my case. I'd be fine without it or if I could have it without expectations of more, I'd be fine with maybe once in a while, but because it's way less than someone sexual (who might want it multiple times per week or at least per month), it makes it hard for me to be compatible with someone who wants or needs sex regularly. And besides curiosity and trying for the heck of it to see if I can enjoy a bit, it's not important to me in a relationship and in general. In my case (as someone graysexual) I have trouble connecting sex and romance, or even prefer other forms of intimacy because I just see sex as a way to share a bit of physical pleasure. Like is it about that you're not much into sex? Do you still desire it, and is it much less than normal? And what does it mean in terms of how you see yourself or what sexual feelings and language means to you.įor most sexual people sex is also a love language, through which they connect and share intimacy, so is something romantic to them. And also I think it's important to just know what sex means to you. It can also come down to how you relate to the label. It's definitely a sign if someone isn't interested in sex much. Some sexual people also don't 'need' sex, so there's always a diversity in how sexual someone can be. I think sometimes it can be a little hard to say between being 'less sexual' and graysexual. I hope the forum helps you as you go along. How do I know that I am for sure asexual or it If it is my meds? I don’t want to “blame” my lack of desire on a sexual orientation that I’m unsure that I have. I have been doing research on asexuality, and I feel that I can relate to many of the aspects of it, particularly gray-asexual. Could these be causing my lack in sexual desire? I am a hopeless romantic and love nice dinners, watching a movie, and occasionally cuddling.Īnother aspect is that I am currently taking Wellbutrin and Zoloft for anxiety/depression. I enjoy spending time with my husband, but not necessarily in a sexual way. I want to have more sex, but I just don’t feel the need for it. When I have a few drinks in me, I feel more loosened up and am more likely to pursue sexual acts. ![]() However, I don’t seem to have the same sexual desire as he does.Īfter work and dinner, I’d be happy going straight to bed. He’s loving, caring, handsome, funny, the list goes on and on. ![]() I love my husband he’s my best friend who I can tell anything to. I am a happy married woman that is curious if I’m asexual. I’m excited to meet you and am interested in your thoughts! ![]()
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